Lake Como has become one of our signature destinations over the past decade. We’ve had the privilege of designing weddings here for couples from all over the world, each one completely unique. The area’s natural beauty, layered history, and refined atmosphere offer the perfect canvas for celebrations that are both meaningful and stunning. With deep knowledge of the venues and logistics around the lake, we’re able to create experiences that are visually unforgettable and seamlessly managed…”
Paolo Nassi & Jinane Kafrouny, P & J Events
C&B: “Paolo, Jinane – thank you so much for gracing our cover this month and for participating in our Lake Como series. Your brand has a very strong reputation for creating beautiful events at some of the most prestigious venues around Lake Como, what do you believe gives you the edge over other planners in the region?”
P&J: “We don’t work with formulas or templates. Each wedding begins with a creative deep dive to understand who the couple is and how that can be reflected in every detail, from setting to ceremony to tables-cape. Everything is custom-designed by our in-house team, which includes stylists, designers, and logistical experts. This combination of creative direction and precise execution allows us to deliver something truly personal, but also effortlessly orchestrated, especially important when planning from abroad…”
Ideally, we start organising the special occasion around twelve to eighteen months ahead. The early stages focus on creative direction and venue selection, followed by the vendor team, guest logistics, and production details. We keep everything structured with regular calls, visual updates, and shared timelines. Because many of our clients live abroad, clear and consistent communication is something we prioritise, it keeps the process enjoyable and collaborative, even across time zones…”
Paolo Nassi & Jinane Kafrouny, P & J Events
C&B: “What types of venues do you typically recommend for luxury weddings on Lake Como, and what are the unique attributes of these locations?”
P&J: “We collaborate with several private villas and historic properties that offer the kind of intimacy and grandeur our couples are looking for. Locations like Villa Balbiano, Villa Pliniana, and Villa Erba provide not only remarkable architecture and lakefront access, but also the right infrastructure for an exceptional guest experience. Each one has a particular charm, some are romantic and baroque, others are minimal and serene. The right fit always depends on the couple’ s story and the atmosphere they want to create…”
We build each wedding team specifically around the couple and the venue. We work onlywith trusted collaborators, florists, musicians, chefs, lighting designers, who understand the level of quality and discretion required for these kinds of events. Everything is planned and reviewed in detail, from mood-boards to mockups to technical runs. On the day itself, we’re on-site managing everything so that our clients and their guests can be completely present…”
Paolo Nassi & Jinane Kafrouny, P & J Events
C&B: “How do you ensure that the wedding experience is tailored to the couple’s specific vision and preferences, given the cultural nuances of a destination wedding?”
P&J: “We take time to get to know our couples, how they live, what moves them, what kind of memories they want to create. Our role is to take that inspiration and design something rooted in emotion and beauty, while integrating the rhythm and customs of the Italian setting. We’re used to blending traditions, whether it’s adding personal rituals to a symbolic ceremony or curating a menu that brings together two cultures. It’s about creating something that feels natural, not forced…”
Lake Como is breathtaking, but it does require thoughtful planning, boat access, parking restrictions, limited event hours, guest accommodations, and transport all need careful coordination. We manage every layer of this: permits, local teams, guest travel schedules, weather backups, always with a calm, clear structure. Our clients often say they’re surprised by how smooth everything felt, even though a lot was happening behind the scenes…”
Paolo Nassi & Jinane Kafrouny, P & J Events
C&B: “Can you provide examples of particularly unique and memorable elements you’ve incorporated into past weddings on Lake Como?”
P&J: “Every wedding has its own signature. One of our couples had their ceremony on a floating structure set on the water, surrounded by mirrored floral installations that played with the reflections of the lake. Another featured a candlelit dinner under a glass marquee, with live jazz echoing softly across the garden. We’ve also created multi-day events where the welcome dinner, ceremony, and farewell party all told a continuous visual and emotional story…”
Lake Como offers a kind of elegance that doesn’t need exaggeration. When paired with a thoughtful design and the right atmosphere, it becomes the setting for something timeless. For us, planning a wedding here isn’t just about putting together an event, it’s about creating a moment that stays with people forever…”
Paolo Nassi & Jinane Kafrouny, P & J Events
CONTACT: http://www.weddingsitaly.com
